Blogger Love | 5 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Started Blogging

Blogger Love | 5 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Started Blogging

As a blogger and marketer, I have a unique perspective about how to run a successful blog that will have dedicated readers and will be brand-friendly. Blogger Love is a series dedicated to helping new and seasoned bloggers develop their blog.

In today’s Blogger Love post, I’ll be sharing the 5 things I wish I  knew before I started blogging.

5 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Started Blogging

1 | There will never be a perfect time to start blogging

How often do we hold ourselves back from trying new things because we’re waiting for the right time, the most high-tech equipment, or the best resources?

Throughout college, I told myself that I wanted to blog about the beauty industry, but I always felt like I was lacking something. I said that I would start when I had more industry expertise, more product knowledge, a fancy camera, chic looking backdrops, or a picture-perfect apartment. All these “things” I needed were holding me back from going after what I wanted.

The truth is there will never be a perfect time to start blogging because our lives will never be perfect. Instead, we have to find the time to go after what we want and to pursue our passions because if we want something badly enough it will happen.

One of the things I wish I knew before I started blogging was that I did’t need anything but my passion and ambition (and maybe coffee).

2 | Stay Organized & Plan Ahead

When I first started blogging, I was flying by the seat of my pants. I wrote down blog ideas in my bullet journal. I planned to write posts to coincide with major events or new releases, but I wasn’t thinking about my blog content as a whole.

I thought that as long as I could pump out 2-3 posts a week. If I posted all the time, others would find my content and follow me. As a result, my content was inconsistent and lacked cohesion.

However, I failed to plan my posts out ahead of time. I’d go through periods where I was posting 2-3 times a week. Then I’d go through lulls where I’d post nothing.

Also, my actual content lacked cohesion. If you look back at my blog, you’ll see there are periods where I only wrote about simple living, financial wellness, or beauty. My blog appeared disorganized. I wasn’t planning ahead, so I had no idea that my content was starting to look lopsided.

One of the things that I wished I knew before I started blogging was that planning ahead of time helps to post regularly. By planning my posts ahead of time, I am able to create and maintain a regular posting cadence.

Planning ahead provides me the time I need to write, edit, and shoot photos for my posts. Moreover, by staying organized, I am able to keep my writing is balanced. Now I am never hyper-focused on one aspect of my niche.

Regardless of whether you prefer physical planners or e-planners, staying organized is vital for keeping a consistent blogging presence.

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3 | Find Your Niche

A question that plagues all bloggers is whether or not you need to stick to a niche. First thing is first, what is a niche? According to Merriam-Webster, a niche is “a specialized market,” or in other words, it is a highly focused market that hones in on one realm of expertise.

Here’s why you should try to find your niche: we all have certain topics that we are most passionate about and gravitate towards when we’re looking to learn or looking for entertainment. For example, I personally love engaging with content that focuses on beauty, wellness, and marketing. It is easier for me to write about these topics and it is easier for me to find others who share these same passions. I’m able to make a greater impact by blogging about highly focused topics that interest me.

Furthermore, all successful websites have a solid SEO strategy. SEO stands for Search Engine Optimization. In layman’s terms, SEO is how your website ranks in an organic search when someone is looking for information on a search engine like Google or Yahoo.

There are a multitude of things that bloggers can do to positively impact how their blog ranks on an organic search page. Focusing on a niche will help search engines to better understand what your website’s specialty. Strong SEO will make it easier for others to find your posts.

4 | Don’t Compare Yourself to Others

Self comparison in the blogging community is a deadly poison that will kill your confidence and ambition. Everyone grows at their own pace depending on their niche, their promotional tactics, and the time invested in their blogs.

For example, blogging lends itself well to those who love to read and write book reviews. Why? People who love to read books tend to enjoy reading reviews about up-and-coming books and are often quite skilled at writing. In comparison, cosmetics is more visual. Fans of beauty content tend look to visual-rich platforms like Instagram, YouTube, and Pinterest for inspiration.

One of the things I wish I knew before I started blogging is that blogging should be internally motivated, and not driven by the desire to grow stats. Stats are one way to measure success, but they aren’t everything. If you focus on making genuine connections and steadily work towards your end goal, you’ll see results.

5 | Have Fun & Make Friends

Last, but certainly not least, blogging should always be fun. If all of a sudden writing makes you feel anxious or depressed, something has gone wrong. Write content that brings you joy, not just content that you think will bring you page views.

Blogging is inherently social. One of my favorite aspects about blogging is the ability to connect with and make genuine friendships. I look forward to reading what my friends post. I am so blessed by their constant encouragements and support. It sounds cheesy, but the blogging community truly is so supportive of one another.

One of the things I wish I knew before I started blogging was that making friends doesn’t have to be scary. As someone who is naturally shy, leaving comments on others’ posts was terrifying at first. However, after a year of blogging, I am more confident in leaving comments and interacting with others. Sometimes, all it takes is a simple tweet or a word of encouragement to spark a new friendship.

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Do you agree with my list of the 5 things I wish I knew before I started blogging? What is something you wish you had known before you started your blog? Please let me know in the comments below.

61 thoughts on “Blogger Love | 5 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Started Blogging

    1. For Instagram, I like using the Preview app to plan out my feed. For blogging I use a combination of bullet journaling (which I make myself) and then a random planner that I bought from Marshalls!

  1. These are definitely things I wish I knew before I started blogging. Not comparing myself to more successful bloggers is something I really struggled with. I’ve really enjoyed making new friends through blogging!

  2. Loved and needed this! Actually just did a similar post, but I enjoyed yours more. I definitely have work to do to mine- always do. Great advice! 😊

  3. These are great tips! I definitely agree that waiting for the “perfect time” to start blogging is not a good idea. I do think it takes some practice to truly figure out what works for you so it’s best to just get started!

  4. Sometimes we all need the little reminder to not compare ourselves to others in the blogging community. Especially if we are just starting out and are still learning things!

  5. In the beginning, I was really planned out and had things done in advance. But now that we have been busy with the house, I’m writing a post at midnight the night before it goes out! Hahaha! And sometimes I miss one. 🙁 I’ll be happy when things can get back to normal.
    Christine xx

  6. I feel this is so relevant! It is is necessary to stop pushing ourselves too hard, as you said. I especially relate with the comparison part: yoy should not compare yourself with people who has been in the industry forever and are well established brands. Even so, this is something I find myself doing too frequently.

    Thank you so much for sharing. It is great too know we are not alone.

  7. Wonderful post. It is hard to do #2 for me as I have weeks where I can do 2-3 posts but some weeks, I can’t do anything as I am sick, I am dead tired from work, or work is eating me away. I am trying to post at least once a week but my hope is 2-3 posts.

    1. Thank you so much for this comment! 💜 I agree that work & life can really make it hard to be consistent. Posting once a week is a wonderful goal and I’m excited to see how you accomplish this on your blog this year.

      1. Well, the other problem is that I have so much content planned for the week. But just exhausted from a job hinders that creativity.

  8. Solid advice here, particularly about making friends and not comparing yourself to anyone else! Thank you for linking me to this through Twitter 🙂

  9. “How often do we hold ourselves back from trying new things because we’re waiting for the right time, the most high-tech equipment, or the best resources?”
    ^ THIS. WAS. ME.
    I wanted to start a blog for the longest time but have always made excuses as to why I need to put it off. I finally jumped the gun last year and I am proud/glad that I did! I love the creative space I have and being able to share my thoughts in this HUGE blogging community feels pretty good. I enjoy engaging with bloggers of all niches! And you’re right, bloggers are the most supportive group I’ve come across lol. Great post! Thanks for sharing your thoughts, loved it!

    xx, Des

    1. Hi Des – thank you so much for this incredibly thoughtful comment. I’m so glad to know that you were able to relate and am happy to hear that you’ve also found the blogging community to be supportive. I’ve taken a look at your sight and it is absolutely gorgeous! <3

  10. Love this post! I can relate to all the items, especially to #4! It’s so hard not to compare yourself to others esepcially when you see that their photos are better than yours, their blog designs are better than yours, etc. But I realized that once you see that it’s your own uniqueness that makes your blog worth visiting and reading, everything will be alright. ♥️

    1. Thank you so much for your comment! <3 It really can be so hard not to compare, but having a sense of strong community certainly helps. And I agree that having your own voice is so important – happy blogging! <3

    1. I’m sorry for the delayed response – this comment got caught in a filter! I think that is totally natural since our blog is a small reflection of who we are and we change over time!!

    1. I’m so glad that you found this helpful! 🙂 Making friends and interacting is truly the best part of blogging!! It took me a while to build up the courage to do that, but now I’m so happy that I’ve put my shyness aside.

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